Sunday, May 10, 2009

what has love become?

it was Mother's Day today, and i love my mom. i love my family, and i'm incredibly blessed to have them around me.

in some sense, i grew up without the dysfunction, or the abuse.. and while i might think these are the ideals, there are plenty of people who don't grow up with that sort of nurturing.

and call me idealistic, but to me, all it takes is just one story of un-love, and the reality of this crazy mixed up world hits me like a tonne of bricks, that no matter how safe we are, we live in a fallen world.

now i understand that not everyone feels this way, but i do.. and it grieves me, and yet i know i'm hypocritical when i bury my head in the sand and pretend that it isn't there.

i guess i'm rambling and i'm not trying to change the world or anything. but i am trying to change my world, and my sphere of influence.

19 comments:

beatmastermark said...
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beatmastermark said...

I stand with you on that bro.. I think it's just excruciatingly sad how much love gets taken for granted especially within the context of the family.. worst still when it gets shut out.. i'm still trying to come to terms with how much of that is a function of the society we live in but excuses aside i just think it is literally a crying shame that it has reached such a level of dilution

brian koh said...

@beatmastermark: thanks for leaving a comment, it's always good to know you ain't alone.. and yeah, love is so diluted these days..

lipstick said...

Love is a tonic for good life .
All human need love to survive in this world .
Pure love only comes from the parents .
lipstick

Discounted Cosmetics said...

I dont think love is alive today, people are attached with each other either for some self reason or help, no body also have feelings now a days.

Quran said...

If every one can understand this,then our world become so lovable that you couldn't except.Nothing necessary to change the all world,just change the own surrounding that u have,result must be positive.

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